I downloaded the PICkit 3 Programmer software and pull it up, but just no experience of ever programming a chip. I can select File and get the correct HEX file and see the Checksum matches what is on Wiki but am blind to what else to do. I am looking for the "PICkit 3 Programmer software for Dummies" tutorial.
as for the express, I built 4 and 2 work and 2 do not and I never did program the chip on them.

? I guess I was half lucky with them.
But any help in Opening my eyes on how the Pickit 3 works would be helpful. I may be thinking it is harder than it is, but usually when you learn how to work something , it always looks easy from the other side of the experience fence.