Some additional rules:
Do what you love. Sequence to songs you love.
Listen to the spouse's input. If she/he wants four leaping arches this year, guess what is going to be in the show this year? Her/his involvement will help you stay involved with your hobby.
Plan early, plan earlier. You will NEVER be starting early enough.
Involve your neighbors. They are the ones who really have to put up with your choices more so than you do. In truth, you voluteered them to watch and listen to your show each night. Doing something to involve them in the process will help the annoyance greatly.