Well after working up the nerve to try SMT, thinking I must of messed something up along the way (or put to much goop or what not) I had the following experience.
Cooking the Aether for the newbie is a fun experience (and a little worrisome for the SMT newbie), but to see the goop turn to solder is really cool.
After that I just went full steam, worried a little with the LEDs, just for the simple fact of their replacement value if I screw up. But got them on and did a little different technique then RJ (I didn't have a flux pen). So I used the method of heating the pin of the LED while pushing it down against the copper of the board. Gave it a couple of seconds and then put some solder on the LED lead and kind of wicked it over to the point where the end of the lead is at the copper. Added some more solder there and the two joined seamlessly.
The rest well that was a big relief as it was through the hole from there on out and allowed me time to catch my breath, slow my heart rate, and dump some adrenaline

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After that the first point of check for me was if the Pic would take the program. The power light lit up with the Pickit 3 supplying power and programmed and verified the chip. My first point I think you could hear an audible sigh of relief.
Finished up the board and buttoned it up with one major issue that I found. I will detail the issue in a separate post for others safety to make sure they check before closing the case.
Ultimately after troubleshooting the above issue, I had a working Aether. This was just the manual switch test as I need to take it back out and wire up the wireless.
On a side note, I didn't see it mentioned in the video, RJ thanks for including the through the holes for the EX/RX wires to attach to the board. I was hoping not to have to order more parts from mouser and that design saved me.
Here is the first of 5 (If they all go this smooth (cross fingers...knock on wood)) Aethers ...
Thanks to RJ for the design, the challenge, and always raising the bar that a common man (or woman) can obtain to make their blinky light show better for cheaper.
-JS